Finding a good swinging site can be difficult with so many sites devoted to Swinging. There are things to look for in a good site though. Here are a few things to consider looking for.

Free Trials

A free trial membership will allow you to explore the site with limited functions. You may not be able to post messages or contact other swingers, but it will give you time to see how many people are in your area and to get used to the sites functionality. Try to find sites that allow you to browse for free, or at least give you a few days before you are charged. Membership fees can also usually be paid in increments, so you can choose a month to month option, a few months, or even a year. Some sites will also have different levels of memberships, with higher paid options allowing for more communication and features.

Additional Options

A good site will have articles and forums. This allows you to understand more about the lifestyle, and see real issues that people have. This can also be a great benefit to those who are new to the lifestyle. You can read what others have experienced and start to understand exactly what to expect.


Some sites will allow users to meet up in a safe place every so often. These events will usually cost money, but you are provided with a safe and private place to practice. This is another good feature to look for.